As we have seen so far, the Big Brother’s house has been filled with chaos, fights, shouting and crying. Some of the housemates especially the men have not been happy with a certain female housemate known as Dede. They didn’t find it funny when she refused to hug them the day of their entry to the Big brother’s house.
Some of them have tried to have a conversation with Dede but she seems not to be interested. One of male housemates finally got a chance to discuss with her and the conversation goes like;
Kola – Day 1, day 100 or whatever it is, you are actually my type, that’s why i wanted to get to know you, talk to you and everything.
I’m not gonna sit down and act like I’m not attracted to you, anyway i’m very much attracted to you, it’s day 4, so i can’t say that i like you but what i would say for sure is that you are someone…..
Dede – *(seems distracted)*
Kola – Dede, i am talking to you…
Dede – Ooooh sh!t i can hear for real, am I supposed to look at you straight
Kola – I noticed you spend a lot of time with Jason Jae
Dede – Can you talk about the things that matter?
That’s how you feel and why you are calling this meeting, although let’s not get third parties involved.
Kola – I’m not trying to get third parties involved.
Dede – Anyway my mind is, i’ve been listening to you but my mind is always busy with something but don’t worry I’m listening, best believe.
Kola – i’m trying to get to know you for who you really are. I feel like the days are long and I’m not trying to choke you and make you feel like we have to talk all the time all that, you obviously have friendships and other people you want to talk to.
Whatever you do is totally fine because its still left for you to decide, I just wanted to let you know that I’m very attracted to you
Dede – hmmm(still uninterested)
Kola- You are very funny, babe and you know it and I love the fact that you’re acting the way.
Dede – First of all, I don’t assume things… I’m a very straightforward person and because you gave me a wink does not mean there’s anything behind the wink.
I don’t know how to take mixed signals, we are adults. I personally do not have the time to filter feelings based on what is happening here.
So did I realize this? No..
Am I just realizing it? absolutely…
But yeah, I’m in a relationship outside the house, very serious, really not open.
Kola – So let’s come to an agreement and if you are OK with it… Now I know you have a relationship outside and I respect that but I wanna try to be your friend, if that’s cool with you.
Dede – Okay, but if tomorrow you are trying to be my friend and there’s feelings involved and I’m hearing all I need is reciprocation, it would not happe… It will definitely not happen by God‘s Grace.
Jason and I probably seem close because there’s a non-liking conversation that we always have, there’s no I like you I like you not. There’s no feelings.
Kola – That’s not what it looks like
Dede – Jason and i don’t discuss things like that. There’s never been a conversation of I like you, we discuss the most random things.
